The Principal Exchange Podcast

Episode 18: Tackling Teacher Resistance with Becca Silver

This week, we’re bringing you something a little different—our very first guest interview! We sat down with Becca Silver, founder and CEO of The Whole Educator and one of our keynote speakers for the upcoming Principal Exchange Winter Conference. Together, we’re digging into a topic every school leader knows all too well: teacher resistance.
Becca shares why resistance happens, why it’s normal, and why the real issue isn’t “difficult teachers” but unmet needs, mindsets, and task-centered leadership approaches that unintentionally create pushback. From human-centered coaching to understanding different motivation profiles, Becca breaks down what’s really happening beneath the surface—and how principals can lead change more effectively and compassionately.
If you’ve ever rolled out a curriculum, launched an initiative, or simply asked your staff to try something new, this conversation will help you see resistance through a whole new lens.
About Today’s Guest: Becca Silver
Becca is the founder of The Whole Educator, a coach-of-coaches, leadership trainer, and expert in human-centered instructional leadership. Her keynote, “It Shouldn’t Be This Hard: Why Resistance Happens and What to Do About It,” will kick off our Winter Virtual Conference.
Learn more about Becca:
Website: thewholeeducator.com
Instagram: @thewholeeducator
LinkedIn: Becca Silver
Podcast: Coaching the Whole Educator
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Episode 17: What January You Needs From December You

The holidays in schools are a mix of joy, chaos, and exhaustion. Kids are hyped, staff are stretched, and the calendar is packed.
In this episode, we’re breaking down quick, practical strategies to help you finish December strong—and set January-you up for success. From prepping for sub shortages and organizing parent help, to rethinking staff gifts and anchoring fun in learning, these simple moves will help you keep things steady now and start the new year with momentum.
Because December-you is tired. But January-you? They’ll thank you for what you do this month.
If you’re ready to make it through the holiday stretch without burning out, start here. This episode will help you lead with clarity, calm, and just enough cheer to carry your school across the finish line.
 
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The Principal Pause: Thanksgiving Break

This week, we’re doing what we always tell principals to do—taking a break when schools take a break.
In this short Thanksgiving episode, Sarah & Andra pop in (pie in hand and laptops closed!) to say thank you to the incredible community of leaders who show up here every week. Between laughter about family traditions, parade memories, and Black Friday nostalgia, they share one simple challenge: pause, reflect, and name three things you’re grateful for that have nothing to do with school.
Because rest isn’t earned—it’s essential.
So kick back, close your computer, and know that you are deeply appreciated. We’ll see you next week for a full episode—but for now, enjoy your well-deserved break.

Episode 16: Feedback That Sticks: 5 Reasons It Fails and How to Fix It

We all know feedback is supposed to make people better. But let’s be honest—it often just makes people defensive. And if your feedback isn’t building trust, it’s breaking it.
In this episode, we’re unpacking why feedback so often falls flat—and how to fix it. From giving specific, timely feedback that actually lands, to navigating those “train wreck” lessons with honesty and support, these strategies help you shift feedback from something people dread to something they depend on.
Because feedback isn’t about pointing out flaws—it’s about pointing people forward.
If you’ve been trying to build a culture of growth but keep running into resistance, start here. This episode will help you make feedback clear, useful, and welcomed—so it actually drives change.
 
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Episode 15: Data: Checkbox or Compass

Schools are drowning in data—test scores, benchmarks, walkthrough rubrics, behavior logs—and yet half the time, it feels like we’re just checking boxes instead of actually learning anything from it.
In this episode, we’re unpacking the difference between collecting data because you have to and using data because it helps you lead. From simplifying what you track, to asking better questions, to closing the loop with teachers, these strategies will help you turn data from noise into direction.
Because data isn’t powerful because you collect it—it’s powerful because you use it.
If you’ve been buried in spreadsheets but starving for insight, start here. This episode will help you turn data into a compass that actually points your school where it needs to go.
 
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Episode 14: Engagement Isn’t Entertainment: Why Student Engagement Matters More Than Ever

Students can be in their seats, quiet, and compliant—and still not be learning. That’s why engagement matters.
In this episode, we’re unpacking the difference between keeping kids busy and actually engaging them in thinking, talking, and caring about what they’re learning. From shifting walkthroughs to focus on engagement, to celebrating small wins, to giving staff ready-to-use strategies, we’ll show you how engagement becomes the lever that drives behavior, learning, and culture.
Because engagement isn’t entertainment—it’s everything.
If you’re ready to move beyond compliance checklists and build classrooms where students are truly invested, start here.
 
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Episode 13: Culture Isn’t Just for Staff—It’s for Students Too

When we talk about school culture, most people immediately think about staff morale—whether teachers feel supported, if the lounge is positive, if the vibe is good. But here’s the question we don’t ask enough: What does your culture feel like to kids?
In this episode, we’re shifting the lens from staff to students. From the way kids are greeted at the door, to how corrections are delivered, to whether lessons feel engaging or just repetitive, student culture is built in the small, everyday interactions. And if students don’t feel seen, valued, and connected, no amount of spirit week can fix that.
Because culture isn’t built in the lounge—it’s built in the hallways, classrooms, cafeteria, and bus loop.
If you want to move beyond morale posters and really create a school kids want to be part of, start here. This episode gives you practical, ready-to-use strategies to build culture that students actually experience as belonging.
 
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Episode 12: Family Nights That Families Actually Show Up To

Family nights can be one of the most powerful ways to connect parents, kids, and schools—but they can also be some of the most disappointing when only a handful of people show up.
In this episode, we’re unpacking why traditional formats flop and what actually gets families through the door. From drop-in, drop-out structures and student-centered showcases to short, fun, food-filled events, these strategies flip family nights from “one more meeting” into “can’t-miss experiences.”
Because families don’t want another lecture—they want to see their kids shine.
If you’ve been stuck with low turnout, start here. This episode will help you design family nights that build connections, celebrate students, and keep families coming back.
 
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